Life, Work, Everything ElseDecember 17, 2006 4:42 pm
Since I’ve been here for more then a month now, I think it’s time to take a look back at the time since I’ve been here and share with you what I think about it.
As most of you know there where some funny stories since I’ve been here, like the hugs, sinter klaus, and some very fun nights out with my expats friends. But one thing I’m surprised to find out is that I don’t know that many Dutch (outside work only one actually). I find them always very friendly but also very distant. I don’t think they are like that because I’m a foreigner, it’s really a part of their culture, they separate everything very well and live very much for their family and close friends only.
Another fun thing that I’ve seen is that it’s the small little things you take for grated that you find more strange. For instance, here you don’t take the garbage out, you wait for a certain day of the week and put the garbage in front of your door!!! Or having lunch…you won’t find restaurants open at lunch time, only snack bars!!!!! And of course, not understanding what people are talking around you it’s always strange!
Now a few words about “The working Dutch”. Traditionally they come in from 8 till 9.30 and go out from 16/18. Most of them work 8 strait hours, not stopping for anything. This is a major difference to what I’m used to of course. I do understand why they do it but can’t do it myself. I still stop for “lunch” ( if that is what you call a soup and a sandwich) and go out of work later. It confuses me to go home as early as they do, but they do take more out of the working day.
I’ve found that they are not as organized as I thought they would be. They are serial workers, they do one task at a time. But they also have all the doubt and uncertainty that you find in Portugal! One big difference I’ve noticed is that I haven’t seen any “blamestorming” (copyright by Vitas).
Also (and for me this is bad) is that they won’t give you any information. They assume you know were to get it. This already gave way to some misunderstanding and problems, including me losing the right to have a car
I do think I still have a lot to learn in cultural terms to be able to work to my full potential and not be caught in misunderstandings like the car one, but I’ll get there. The one thing necessary is to have an open mind and not start blaming the Dutch for everything different from my expectations. Some times is hard to do this tho.